This was the conversation in the car today:
Cheyenne: "I just want to ask... Do you have a boyfriend?"
Me: "No, I don't have a boyfriend."
Cheyenne: "That's kinda sad."
Josh: "Cheyenne!!!"
Me: "Well, Cheyenne.. God just hasn't opened the door for that in my life right now. & I'd much rather have a boyfriend that I intend to spend the rest of my life with than someone I'd be in a relationship with just because."
Cheyenne: "Yeah, that's good. But you know, if you did have a boyfriend, you could tell us about him & then we could possibly meet him someday!"
Me: "Well, how about this... Why don't the three of us stay friends after this summer. We can stay in contact. I'd love to hear what you guys are up to. & then someday when I get a boyfriend I'll tell you about him, you can meet him, & then you can be friends with him as well. Deal?"
Josh & Cheyenne emphatically: "Yes! Deal."
This actually made me extremely happy. & I felt totally content with God's timing after having this conversation with the kids.
Ah, Alex. Your blog makes me smile.
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